Interpersonal Relationship

After stepped into the world of higher level education,

I just found that this topic is a really huge homework that we need to do research on.

When I was young,

 the interpersonal relationship is nothing to me.

cos back in those time,

we were still naïve and things around us go on just so fine.

we were having the purest heart ever in every friendship we have.

we appreciated, we loved, we cared, and even dedicated

although sometimes we quarrel or just having little child spat

but still

we tend to forgive each other easily and smile widely as always.

But thing doesn’t goes well as we start to grow up

Things getting harder, and obstacles start occur

By then

Purest heart in friendship start fading

In fact

We start dealing with INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIP

To deal with this thing

We need a lot of skills

Skill is needed in everything…ALMOST everything I know about relationship..

Skill to talk, skill to follow up with others, skill of not to be left behind, 

skill of behave nicely to someone that we not need to impress,

and

even skill to pretend!

If the wrong skill is used

Gossiping and tell-tales start to come up

even defamation..

is this because we've grown up and have to deal with self dimension?
But that doesn't mean we can exploit each other to achieve what we want instead..
ITS SO FAKE!!

besides,

all of the effects of wrong skills come with big consequences

that’s why all of the murder case or suicide is committed by adults

did we ever heard of children committed suicide or murder?

Sure is…..NO

Cos children has the purest heart ever between each other!

They have the “friendship” and what adults have is “interpersonal relationship”..

So in the other words..

When the time friendship need a lot of skills to maintain,

the true heart is fading away and is replacing by masked skills..

Is this the world of grown up?

If it is..

I would rather stay at childhood..
..i wan friendship more..

p/s: I need purest friendship to console my heart
rather than those faked skills

and

I hate tell-tellers, defamer, and exploitation!!